Modern Anniversary Gifts by Year: Exquisite Jewellery to Celebrate Every Milestone

The gentle unfolding of years in a shared life together is priceless, and along the way, milestones become memories to cherish for always.

Wedding anniversaries are some of the most celebrated milestones because they symbolise a once-in-a-lifetime union, and all the wonderful moments on that shared journey. 

Traditions across history have given rise to  anniversary gifts  being tied to specific materials, such as paper for the 1st or pottery for the 9th, modern gift-giving embraces more forms of expression. Modern anniversary gifts  include gemstone or Diamond jewellery, flowers, or even household decor, allowing you greater personalisation and sentimentality. 

And for a thoughtful gift steeped in both heritage and timelessness, there’s no better choice than fine jewellery. Each exquisite piece, carefully selected, serves as a tangible reminder of the unique beauty and depth of a relationship at every stage.

At B.P. de Silva, we understand the profound significance of these moments. With a legacy spanning over 150 years, we curate and craft bespoke fine jewellery to create enduring treasures to celebrate each precious milestone as it passes. Read on for a guide to the art of selecting meaningful modern anniversary gifts by year with a focus on fine jewellery, which capture the very essence of your unique love story.

The Evolution of Anniversary Gift-Giving: From Traditional to Modern

The tradition of bestowing specific gifts to commemorate weddings and wedding anniversaries date back centuries, with roots in various cultures across the world.

In the East, with China, for instance, auspicious colours like red and gold are favoured for anniversary gifts throughout the years. In India, anniversaries may be celebrated with ceremonies, family gatherings, and gift exchanges with gold jewellery is prized. 

As for the West, for many countries such as France, certain anniversary years are celebrated with specific materials in mind. During the Victorian era in England, we began to see a formalised list of materials associated with each anniversary from the 1st to the 10th, and then every five years (i.e. 15th, 20th, 25th), and so on up till the 60th anniversary. These traditional gifts often held symbolic meaning—paper (1st) for new beginnings, wood (5th) for strength, silver (25th) for harmony, and gold (50th) for prosperity. They served as tangible representations of the evolving nature of the marriage and the qualities that a couple cultivates together over time.

Nowadays, we’ve seen a shift in the associations, and therefore, also the types of gifting. Here’s a table of findings, which may be of interest if you’re looking for anniversary gifts by year:

Year	Traditional (Victorian)	Modern	Precious Metals and Gemstones
1st	Paper	Clocks	Gold
2nd	Cotton	China	Garnet
3rd	Leather	Crystal or glass	Pearl
4th	Fruits or flowers	Appliances	Blue Topaz
5th	Wood	Silverware	Sapphire
6th	Candy or iron	Wood	Amethyst
7th	Copper or wool	Desk set	Onyx
8th	Bronze	Linens or lace	Tourmaline
9th	Pottery	Leather	Lapis Lazuli
10th	Tin or aluminium	Diamond jewellery	Diamond
15th	Crystal	Watches	Ruby
20th	China	Platinum	Emerald
25th	Silver	Silver	Silver
30th	Pearl	Diamond	Pearl
35th	Coral	Jade	Emerald
40th	Ruby	Ruby	Ruby
45th	Sapphire	Sapphire	Sapphire
50th	Gold	Gold	Gold
55th	Emerald	Emerald	Emerald
60th	Diamond	Diamond	Diamond

Source: Brides

Notably, fine materials like gold, and precious gemstones like Sapphires, Emerald, and Diamond to name a few, continue to reign as ideal gifts to commemorate special occasions. One of the most special things about fine or high jewellery is that they make lasting keepsakes, to be cherished for years, or even across generations.

If you’re looking for an anniversary gift that has potential as a cherished heirloom, fine jewellery featuring that anniversary year’s gemstone or precious metal is an exceptional choice for a husband or wife.

Commemorating the First Decade of Love: Fine Jewellery for the 1st to 10th Anniversaries

To mark that first year of a shared home, and the coming together of families, for the 1st anniversary, solid gold keepsakes will make for an enduring memento . Consider gifting a pair of elegant gold stud earrings like the ones from our Duet or Pocketful of Gems Collections — stud earrings are a classics that can be worn every day for a subtle touch of luxury. Or perhaps the Horizon Signet Ring in 18K yellow gold, with your initials or anniversary date engraved as an everlasting reminder.

Garnets are particularly favoured for the 2nd anniversary, believed to symbolise passion and energy. The Deco Pop Garnet Studs would be a great addition to any jewellery collection, with its versatile silhouette. Garnets also come in a variety of colours ranging from deep reds to oranges, yellows, and even greens or blues — if you’d like, we can also customise a pair just for you.

By the time the 3rd anniversary comes by, you and your partner would have seen your fair share of lifes ebbs and flows, and still choosing each other through them is a gift in itself. Perhaps, that is why Pearls are the chosen gem to signify the occasion, with their unmistakable lustre, shimmering softly just as they are. Our High Seas Pearl Necklace would be an unforgettable gift, to be cherished for the years ahead.

The Blue Topaz is the gemstone for the 4th anniversary, believed to promote joy and communication. Over our century of being in continuous operations, B.P.’s has been commissioned to design and craft with some of the finest blue gemstones. This might be the perfect opportunity to gift your spouse an experience with our Bespoke Journey.

The 5th anniversary marks half a decade – and for this milestone, Sapphire jewellery represents strength. Sapphires, B.P.’s hallmark gemstone, also signifies loyalty and enduring love, so it’s no surprise that this versatile gem can be found in all shapes and cuts from the stunning Ceylon Bay Sapphire and Diamond Tennis Bracelet (approx. 0.96ct sapphires and approx. 2.31ct diamonds set in 19K white gold) to a more subtle Pocketful of Gems Sapphire Necklace (approx. 0.39ct round blue Sapphire). Read more about the different colours and hues of sapphire to find the perfect option for your beloved.

The 6th anniversary is a step closer to that first decade! Amethyst is the gemstone for this year, believed to promote peace and stability. Be it in a pendant, cufflinks, or ear studs, its beautiful hues of lavender, violet, or indigo are sure to dazzle.

A relatively underrated gemstone, onyx is the representative for the 7th anniversary. Believed to offer strength and protection, its energies will serve you both well inlaid in a ring or held close to your heart as a pendant.

Tourmaline is the gemstone for the 8th anniversary, available in a beautiful array of colours; the enchanting blue-green hues of The Plush™ Delight Paraiba Tourmaline Ring (featuring an approx. 0.71ct round Paraiba tourmaline), the Pocketful of Gems Paraiba Tourmaline Necklace’s electric blue pear-shaped centerpiece (of approx. 0.393ct), and the rose pink of the Rhapsody Pink Tourmaline Ring (with an approx. 1.42ct emerald-cut pink tourmaline) are just some that come to mind.

Reaching your 9th anniversary, Lapis Lazuli serves as a beautiful reminder of the value of wisdom and truth. A striking Lapis Lazuli necklace could show off off the gem’s deep blue hues in the sweetest way, just a the rays of sunshine sparkle across it with every turn of its wearer.

Finally for the 10th anniversary—your first decade together—there’s nothing quite like Diamond. A timeless symbol of enduring love and commitment, a classic pair of diamond stud earrings, a sophisticated diamond pendant, or delicate diamond bracelet (the Dreamer’s Bouquet Diamond Bracelet with approx. 7.24ct in custom cuts comes to mind) are all stunning choices that will be cherished for years to come.

Many have also come to us to discover new Diamond rings that celebrate this moment in a love story, or request for a completely new bespoke piece.

Celebrating Two Decades of Love: Platinum and Precious Gemstones for the 20th Anniversary

Reaching the 20 year anniversary is a profound milestone; a testament to two decades of shared experiences, mutual growth, unwavering support, and a deeply intertwined life. The 20th anniversary is certainly a moment to celebrate the enduring strength of a bond that has weathered the life’s curveballs, and rejoiced in countless moments of sunshine.

Traditionally, the 20th wedding anniversary gift for a husband or wife is associated with the delicate beauty of fine china, symbolising the refined elegance and lasting nature of a long-lasting marriage. Today, it is celebrated with either Platinum or Emerald jewellery, or even a combination of both.

Platinum’s enduring strength and rarity needs no introduction: it’s the perfect symbol for a steadfast partnership, spanning two decades of married life.

For her, our Jazz Age New York New York Emerald Ring is a modern marvel, with its unique and bold pairings of rare Diamond cuts, starting with its exquisite centrepiece, approx 1.41ct natural Emerald, and rare, shield-cut Diamonds on each side of the band.

For him, B.P.'s ring bands may be requested to be crafted in platinum – a particularly popular design would be our Horizon Perpetual Band which may also be customised in different metalwork pairings, and, instead of Diamonds, one may also consider coloured gemstones.

Marking Thirty Years Together: Diamond and Pearl Treasures for the 30th Anniversary

Pearls make another appearance as the gemstone of choice, and for the big 30th Anniversary, it comes paired with the Diamond.

For her, a previously simple strand of pearls can be transformed into a multi-strand design—each band honouring the many layers of your shared life. For him, something majestic like the Grand Waves Pearl Ring (approx. 10.10mm South Sea pearl surrounded by approx 1.05cts round brilliant diamonds), exquisitely crafted in 18K white gold, is a wondrous statement.

Meanwhile, just as a diamond is formed under immense pressure over time, emerging as a symbol of unparalleled strength and enduring beauty, a marriage that has thrived for three decades has also weathered life’s challenges to emerge stronger and more radiant.

If you’re considering a Diamond jewellery upgrade, our Jazz Age Fifth Avenue Diamond Ring exudes an understated yet distinctively luxurious silhouette.

Four Decades of Enduring Love: Rubies for the 40th Anniversary

The 40th anniversary milestone speaks of a love that has not only thrived, but has also intrinsically deepened and wisened.

The Ruby as an anniversary gift  has stayed steadfast, through both traditional and modern iterations—and one look at the gemstone makes it clear why. Its rich red hue symbolises the enduring passion, vitality, and deep love that has sustained a marriage for four decades, making it a testament to the years of unwavering shared love and understanding. To gift your husband or wife a ruby on your 40th wedding anniversary conveys the enduring connection built on years of choosing one another over and over again.

For her, a ruby necklace would be worn close to her heart, its vibrancy evoking feelings of romance, energy, affection, and ever-enduring passion. Elegant ruby earrings, studded or dangling, also add an elevated edge to any occasion, making a power statement of love. For him, consider Ruby jewels set in cool white platinum or bold yellow gold. A distinguished ruby ring could also be worn with pride as a vibrant addition to any look, romance kindled in its glowing deep hues.

The Jubilee Milestone: Golden Jewellery for the 50th Anniversary

The 50th Anniversary is as special as it is rare. It’s a milestone unveiled through a once-in-a-lifetime love made stronger with every year that passes by. A love that has stood the test of time, and continues to stand steadfast still.

The gift of Gold has transcended both trends and time. Its strength and resilience perfectly encapsulates the enduring value, richness, and unwavering strength of a fifty-year marriage. Gold can also represent prosperity, wisdom gained through shared experiences, and the enduring warmth that has sustained the relationship through the years.

For her, an eternity of sorts, through a ring or bracelet design. Perhaps the Ceylon Bay Diamond Tennis Bracelet bearing approx. 4.56ct diamonds crafted in 18K yellow gold, a delight that gleams and glows with every ray of light. Stack it with the High Street Diamond Lattice Bracelet (with 1.637ct marquise diamonds and approx. 1.218ct round diamonds, in 18K yellow gold) for extra impact.

For him, the Deco Centennial Cosmic Trilogy Diamond Ring is sure to make a statement. Featuring an approx. 1.0ct Royal Asscher cut diamond flanked by approx. 0.3ct Royal Asscher cut diamonds and approx. 0.58ct baguette diamonds set in 18K yellow gold, it conveys the magic and stature of the Art Deco era, making it perfect for a husband of such stature. Learn more about the Deco Centennial collection.

A substantial gold ring, perhaps a reimagining of either of your original wedding bands, or a completely new design, can also serve as a powerful and beautiful emblem of five decades of unwavering love and commitment, a truly unforgettable 50th anniversary gift for a couple.

A Shared Lifetime to Cherish: The Diamond Anniversary, 60 Years and Counting

Lovingly referred to as the Diamond Anniversary, it’d be easy to guess the choice gift for a 60-year anniversary.

What a milestone to behold – a monumental celebration in ode to a shared lifetime of love, family, friendship, and the many more in-betweens just between two souls.

Diamond jewellery, with its unparalleled brilliance, strength, and elegance, is the perfect symbol to commemorate sixty remarkable years of love and partnership. Fancy coloured diamonds are also one way to elevate your 60th anniversary gift, reimagining what traditional diamond jewellery looks like to represent the vibrancy of a life well lived and well shared.

For her, an intricate arrangement of sparkling stones like the Lotus Bud Diamond Necklace can be a truly awe-inspiring gift. Featuring approx. 17.42ct round brilliant diamonds set in 18K white gold, its luminescent glow is almost angelic in its splendour, as befitting the one who you’ve had the honour of building a life with for over half a century.

For him, the Deco Centennial Skylight Solitaire Diamond Ring cuts an impressive figure with its square design, featuring an approx. 1.51ct Asscher-cut diamond (F, VVS 1) surrounded by approx. 2.34ct baguette diamonds (F/G, VVS/VS) in 18K white gold. Inspired by the skylights of Art Deco architecture, this piece illuminates any space it’s in with its dazzling beauty. It’s a glowing testament to the strength and character of a committed husband that has been there through it all.

Mid-Decade Moments in Marriage: Fine Jewellery Gifts for the 15th, 25th, 35th, 45th, and 55th Anniversaries

The “mid-way milestones” are still achievements, though they may not be as widely celebrated as the full decade anniversaries. At B.P’s though, love is love, let your stories make your rules! Every day is special, especially if it’s spent in love.

The list of anniversary gifts outlines a plethora of ideas for each mid-decade year. Whether it’s a Ruby jewel for the 15th Anniversary, or a Sapphire gift for the 45th Anniversary like our Lunar Reign Sapphire Ring, a visit to our flagship boutique offers the discovery of enduring keepsakes. The couples in our community also enjoy marking their milestones with a picture at our B.P. de Silva swing.

Whatever you may be looking for, our team of Gem and Jewellery Specialists are happy to help safekeep your stories through fine keepsakes that last.

Celebrating Your Love Story, Year After Year

From that 1st year celebration marked by gold to the enduring brilliance of Diamond jewellery on the 60th anniversary, each year of marriage is a unique and precious chapter in your shared story. Choosing a thoughtful and meaningful wedding anniversary gift by year, no matter how big or small the number you’re celebrating may be, is a beautiful way to acknowledge the journey you’ve travelled together and to reaffirm the enduring love that binds you.

Fine jewellery, with its timeless elegance and inherent sentimentality, offers an exceptional way to commemorate these special milestones, year after year. The fine jewellery and high jewellery pieces from B.P. de Silva Jewellers are also ideal as heirlooms to be treasured and passed down through generations—ensuring your love endures forever, in memories and stories shared by your family.

As you navigate modern anniversary gifts by year, remember that the most important aspect of any gift is the love and thought behind it. Beyond just choosing a piece that features that specific year’s gemstone or precious metal, consider options like personalisation or engraving to ensure it resonates with the sentiment you’re trying to convey.

As a purveyor and crafter of bespoke fine jewellery, B.P. de Silva Jewellers can help you create exquisite pieces that celebrate the beauty of natural gemstones alongside the achievements of your love. Learn about our jewellery customisation process and how we’ve honoured our bespoke jewellery legacy of over a century.

We invite you to explore our exquisite jewellery collections online or to visit our flagship boutique for a personalised consultation. Schedule an appointment with our knowledgeable specialists to discover the art of gifting timeless elegance, and allow us to help you find the perfect treasure to celebrate your unique love story.